Last Friday I heard the khutba'ah from Holy city Mecca, it’s a very important note on society and it's still on my mind.
The main ingredients of good society is successful marriage and the Immam gave very important advice.
He said it’s really very important whom you choose as your life partner so choose wisely and don't just look at beauty which pleases you but also look at the character.
Never a man or women bind in marriage if they don't like each other or if any one of them have any objection.
For a successful marriage one should look at the good in each other and stop arguing with each other look at the similarities and lead the life.
The best thing for a man or women could do is get married.
This was really a beautiful khutba'ah I got only few points for you though you may read it many times but I'm sharing it as I can't stop myself.
"A piece of land is turned into garden after many efforts such is a marriage so do your best to turn it into a garden whose fragrance will guide you to Jannah Insha'Allah."
The Prophet salAllahu"alayhi wasallam said "Whoever has married has completed half of his religion; therefore let him fear Allah in the other half "Bayhaqi
By Faiza Al Noor